She Said Yes
Author: Misty Bernall
(Speechless)…………..BEAUTIFUL beautiful book!! She Said Yes is written by a mother of a martyred Cassie. It is a touching, emotional, and an encouraging tale. It shows how a troubled teenager, Cassie, goes through the hardships in her adolescent life. It tells how she changes from a quiet, little worm living in a cocoon to a friendly, harmless butterfly. The book is super encouraging not only for parents who are trying to deal with their teenage kids, but also kids who go through the typical ups and downs of a teen life.
I love the quotes given in the book before each chapter: “Many things can wait. Children cannot. Today their bones are being formed, their blood is being made, their senses are being developed. To them we cannot say ‘tomorrow’. Their name is today”, “how sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is to have a thankless child.”, also, “until God has taken possession of you, you cannot have faith, but only simple belief, and it hardly matters whether or not you have a such a belief, because you can arrive at faith equally well through disbelief.” and many more.
I actually found out more bout Christianity’s similarities to Islam. “seek the kingdom of God and his justice first, and then all the rest will be added to you.” We as Muslims are also taught to put religion as our first priority and then the rest. “all of us should live life so as to be able to face eternity at any time.” We’ re taught to be ready for death as well at each and every minute and day of our lives, because life after the death is the real, true life we’d be facing.
Cassie was just like any other teenager who began distancing from her parents gradually. Misty and Brad, Cassie’s parents, after discovering Cassie’s ‘new character’, went through her stuff to find out the reason behind the changed daughter, and found letters from her ‘friends’ with pictures of vampires, knives, and dead people. Of course, they tried to separate Cassie from the wrong crowd, but it seemed impossible to do so.
After when she was forced to change schools and go to youth groups in churches where conversations of not only religion, but also worldly topics were discussed, she loathed it naturally. As time went on, she made friends with a girl, who showed her a light in life, who encouraged her to live, who clarified about what God and His messages were about. That was when the barrier between herself and God broke, and she changed from a tough emo girl to the friendliest, never-judging, pleasant person remarkably. The journey that she took to alter her life and personality really wasn’t easy for her. I’ve only summarized the story into those lines, but when it is actually read, one won’t only know the details of what Cassie went through, but would also genuinely learn the great importance of his/her religion, God, life, friends, and family.
Tragedy occurred when she was shot by some mentally ill students. However, her death was a story that’s still told today.
After the killers had approached Cassie, they’d asked her whether she believed in God. She said, “Yes.” Then they asked her, “why?” and before even letting her answer, they shot her in the head….
I go through what Cassie did almost everyday. The anger on parents or siblings or listening to dark music. The miracle was that after she had transformed, she stopped judging, barely lost her temper, was always ready to help others, read Bible everyday! It’s quite difficult doing these things yourself. She had truly prepared herself to die for God. She really had a strong faith. I really am her huge fan. I learned a great deal from the book.
…..May her soul rest in peace.
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